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“No Side. No Story. No BS...Just This.”

 

Consider this, old friend.

Open YouTube or any public space of the digital mind, and you'll see it immediately:

heat without light.

Voices sharpening into weapons.

Left against right.

Right against left.

Each convinced it stands on solid ground, each shouting from a cliff made entirely of borrowed thought.

And what is this "world" they're fighting over? 

A clash of opinions.

Secondhand convictions disguised as personal truth.

Borrowed certainty reheated until it boils.

Everyone is heated with belief.

Few are calm with seeing.

Ask quietly—without accusation:

Where did this opinion originate?

Did it arise fresh, like breath?

Or was it handed down, absorbed, repeated, and defended as if it were part of my skin?

Follow any opinion far enough back, and you'll find the same thing.

Conditioning, wearing a mask.

Echoes mistaking themselves for voices.

Thought quoting thought quoting thought.

And so the mind argues with itself, splitting into camps, fighting shadows on a screen; it forgets it is the one projecting. 

Here's the heresy no one wants to hear: The world you're arguing about is made up of the very mind doing the arguing.

Hot water arguing with hot water about who's boiling correctly.

So what if—just for a moment—we stopped trying to fix the content of the mind and questioned whether it needs to run the show at all?

What if we didn't improve opinions, clarify positions, or pick better sides…but just set the whole damn mechanism down?

Don't crush the ego and its shadow, the mind... because that's still aggression.

Just stop giving it the authority it never earned.

Because notice this: When the ego quiets down and stops being full of itself, even for a short moment, the world does not fall apart.

There is still color. 

Still sounds.

Still life unfolding perfectly without commentary.

No, left.

No, right.

No, wrong.

Not who's winning.

Not who's losing.

Just this...simply being aware of the whole nonsense.

No opinions claiming, "This should be different." 

No narrator insists, "I know better."

And in that absence—

In that shocking simplicity, there is a peace so ordinary it's overlooked.

A happiness not manufactured, not argued into existence.

Not fireworks bliss, but relief bliss.

The relief of no longer needing to be right.

The relief of not defending borrowed ideas.

The relief of stepping behind the screen and realizing:

The movie was loud, but the screen was always silent.

Beyond duality, opinion, and the endless tug-of-war of the ego mind—there is no other stance to take.

There is only what is—neither this nor that.

No BS.

No hot takes.

No asses to kiss.

No enemies to curse.

Just the reality we face.

For a while, I believed I had figured out how to argue with it, challenge it, and debate my way into clarity.

But reality does not respond to argument.

And if one looks closely—gently enough—behind the illusion of mind projected as the world, one may find something quietly reassuring: peace was never absent.

It was only obscured by the noise of the mind.

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