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The Hungry Ghost — Where Every Desire Is Fed and Nothing Is Fulfilled




Think of this unconscious navigator of the physical world—the ego.

A hungry ghost.
A clever shadow.
Wearing the face of “me.”

It does not truly want the prize.

It craves the thrill of possessing it.

The lover.

The applause.

The paycheck.

The moment of arrival.

For a moment, something swells and whispers,

“now I am enough.”

And then—almost immediately—it fades.

It's not because the prize was wrong, but because the one who reached for it was never meant to be satisfied.

So the chase starts again—always pushing toward the future, never settling in the present.

Always what if... 

always almost... 

always just one step away from this.

Yet existence is never elsewhere.

It does not live in yesterday or tomorrow.

It does not wait behind the next achievement.

It is always here—quietly unfolding as what is.

Still, the mind pushes forward, imagining fulfillment on the horizon, confusing distance with significance.

We call it ambition.

We call it success.

We call it hunger for life.

But behind these bright names, a quieter truth endures: we are chasing a feeling that cannot last.

Win a championship.

The crowd roars.

Identity feels taller.

Meaning crystallizes.

And then the mind asks,

“What’s next, old friend?”

If one victory were fulfillment, there would be no second season.

If one lover were fulfillment, no heart would stray.

If one success were enough, no empire would rise.

The ego does not pursue peace.

It searches for stimulation.

It’s sugar on the tongue—sweet, electric, dissolving.

So it tastes again.

And again.

And again.

Food clearly reveals the pattern.

You eat.

Aroma rises.

Flavors bloom.

For a while, there is fullness.

Then the familiar emptiness quietly comes back.

Not because something is broken—but because fullness is temporary by design.

But the ego doesn't understand the rhythm of life. 

It sees fading pleasure as failure.

“I need more,” it whispers.

“I lost that loving feeling.”

So it runs after another plate, another body, another title, another thrill.

Simply, not just to exist—but to recreate a fading sensation.

This is how mirages are born.

Fulfillment glimmers on the horizon:

“I’ll be happy when…”

“I’ll be whole when…”

“I’ll finally be enough when…”

And every time the moment arrives, it melts on the tongue.

Sweet.

Brief.

Gone.

And the chase resumes.

Life, in this third-dimensional theater, is thrilling.

There is joy in building.

Joy in striving.

Joy in creating, winning, and becoming.

The tragedy is not enjoying these things.

The tragedy is believing they will complete us.

The ego is constructed on time.

And everything created in time must fade.

So it feeds on moments, trying to turn fleeting pleasure

into a permanent identity.

But there is something in you that has never experienced hunger.

Consciousness does not crave applause.

Being does not require achievement.

Presence does not need tomorrow.

The king does not chase the feast.

The beggar does.

And the beggar can conquer the whole world and still feel empty—because he is trying to nourish himself with reflections and mirages.

You can eat and eat and eat, but enough is never enough when what is being fed was never real.

And one day—without bells, without drama—

something simply notices:

“I am not the hunger.

I am the one who notices it.

And in that observation, the endless reaching quietly ends.

What remains is not fullness…but a sense of beingness.

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